Carl Rogers was an American psychologist who believed in the idea of self-actualization.
Best Carl Rogers Quotes
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change. ~ Carl Rogers.
Life, at its best, is a flowing, changing process in which nothing is fixed. ~ Carl Rogers.
Man’s inability to communicate is a result of his failure to listen effectively. ~ Carl Rogers.
The organism has one basic tendency and striving – to actualize, maintain, and enhance the experiencing organism. ~ Carl Rogers.
Don’t be a damned ammunition wagon. Be a rifle! ~ Carl Rogers.
The facts are always friendly, every bit of evidence one can acquire, in any area, leads one that much closer to what is true. ~ Carl Rogers.
Adults who think that children must be manipulated for their own good have developed the attitude of a controlling parent who lacks faith in himself, the child, or humanity or himself. ~ Carl Rogers.
The degree to which I can create relationships, which facilitate the growth of others as separate persons, is a measure of the growth I have achieved in myself. ~ Carl Rogers.
It is not that this focus of power to the person, it is that it never takes it away. ~ Carl Rogers.
Can I freely permit this staff member or my son or my daughter to become a separate person with ideas, purposes, and values which may not be identical with my own? ~ Carl Rogers.
No other person’s ideas, and none of my own ideas, are as authoritative as my experience. ~ Carl Rogers.
Famous Carl Rogers Quotes
Empathy is a special way of coming to know another and ourself, a kind of attuning and understanding. When empathy is extended, it satisfies our needs and wish for intimacy, it rescues us from our feelings of aloneness. ~ Carl Rogers.
Growth occurs when individuals confront problems, struggle to master them, and through that struggle develop new aspects of their skills, capacities, views about life. ~ Carl Rogers.
It’s not about getting the feeling out of the mind, or hiding it, but about experiencing it with acceptance. ~ Carl Rogers.
We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed. ~ Carl Rogers.
It is a direction not a destination. ~ Carl Rogers.
I have gradually come to one negative conclusion about the good life. It seems to me that the good life is not any fixed state. ~ Carl Rogers.
Don’t be the ammunition wagon, be the rifle knowledge exists primarily for use. ~ Carl Rogers.
Neurotic behavior is quite predictable. Healthy behavior is unpredictable. ~ Carl Rogers.
Top Carl Rogers Quotes
Am I living in a way which is deeply satisfying to me, and which truly expresses me? ~ Carl Rogers.
To be original, or different, is felt to be dangerous. ~ Carl Rogers.
People are just as wonderful as sunsets if you let them be. When I look at a sunset, I don’t find myself saying, “Soften the orange a bit on the right hand corner.” I don’t try to control a sunset. I watch with awe as it unfolds. ~ Carl Rogers.
I have learned that in any significant or continuing relationship, feelings which are persistent had best be expressed. If they are expressed as feelings owned by me, the result may be temporarily upsetting but ultimately far more rewarding than any attempt to deny or conceal them. ~ Carl Rogers.
Experience is the highest authority. ~ Carl Rogers.
There is direction but there is no destination. ~ Carl Rogers.
Powerful is our need to be known, really known by ourselves and others, even if only for a moment. ~ Carl Rogers.
What is most personal is most universal. ~ Carl Rogers.
The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination. ~ Carl Rogers.
The very essence of the creative is its novelty, and hence we have no standard by which to judge it. ~ Carl Rogers.
Popular Carl Rogers Quotes
I have come to feel that the more fully the individual is understood and accepted, the more he tends to drop the false fronts with which he has been meeting life, and the more he tends to move in a direction which is forward. ~ Carl Rogers.
If we value independence, if we are disturbed by the growing conformity of knowledge, of values, of attitudes, which our present system induces, then we may wish to set up conditions of learning which make for uniqueness, for self-direction, and for self-initiated learning. ~ Carl Rogers.
We think we listen, but very rarely do we listen with real understanding, true empathy. Yet listening, of this very special kind, is one of the most potent forces for change that I know. ~ Carl Rogers.
With the price of life these days, you’ve got to get everything for free you can. ~ Carl Rogers.
The purpose of adult education is to help them to learn, not to teach them all you know and thus stop them from learning. ~ Carl Rogers.
There are as many real worlds as there are people! ~ Carl Rogers.
The only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn and change. ~ Carl Rogers.
If I were to search for the central core of difficulty in people as I have come to know them, it is that in the great majority of cases they despise themselves, regarding themselves as worthless and unlovable. ~ Carl Rogers.
It is the client who knows what hurts, what directions to go, what problems are crucial, what experiences have been deeply buried. ~ Carl Rogers.
This process of the good life is not, I am convinced, a life for the faint-hearted. It involves the stretching and growing of becoming more and more of one’s potentialities. It involves the courage to be. It means launching oneself fully into the stream of life. ~ Carl Rogers.
Great Carl Rogers Quotes
The elements in a relationship which seem impossible to share, the secretly disturbing, dissatisfying elements, are the most rewarding to share. This is a hard, risky, frightening thing to learn, and it needs to be re-learned over and over. ~ Carl Rogers.
A person cannot teach another person directly; a person can only facilitate another’s learning. ~ Carl Rogers.
It is astonishing how elements which seem insoluble become soluble when someone listens. How confusions which seem irremediable turn into relatively clear flowing streams when one is heard. ~ Carl Rogers.
The only way to understand another culture is to assume the frame of reference of that culture. ~ Carl Rogers.
The basic idea behind teaching is to teach people what they need to know. ~ Carl Rogers.
The only reality I can possibly know is the world as I perceive it at this moment. The only reality you can possibly know is the world as you see it at this moment. And the only certainty is that those perceived realities are different. There are as many real worlds as there are people! ~ Carl Rogers.
We can choose to use our growing knowledge to enslave people in ways never dreamed of before, depersonalizing them, controlling them by means so carefully selected that they will perhaps never be aware of their loss of personhood. ~ Carl Rogers.
As no one else can know how we perceive, we are the best experts on ourselves. ~ Carl Rogers.
Wise Carl Rogers Quotes
What I am is good enough if I would only be it openly. ~ Carl Rogers.
True empathy is always free of any evaluative or diagnostic quality. This comes across to the recipient with some surprise. If I am not being judged, perhaps I am not so evil or abnormal as I have thought. ~ Carl Rogers.
I was forced to stretch my thinking, to realize that sincere and honest people could believe in very divergent religious doctrines. ~ Carl Rogers.
Empathy is the listener’s effort to hear the other person deeply, accurately, and non-judgmentally. Empathy involves skillful reflective listening that clarifies and amplifies the person’s own experiencing and meaning, without imposing the listener’s own material. ~ Carl Rogers.
It is astonishing how elements that seem insoluble become soluble when someone listens, how confusions that seem irremediable turn into relatively clear flowing streams when one is heard. ~ Carl Rogers.
It seems to me to have value because the curious paradox is that when I accept myself as I am, then I change. ~ Carl Rogers.
Openness to all attitudes no matter how extreme or unrealistic they may seem. ~ Carl Rogers.
There is in every organism, at whatever level, an underlying flow of movement toward constructive fulfillment of its inherent possibilities. ~ Carl Rogers.
The paradigm of Western culture is that the essence of persons is dangerous; thus, they must be taught, guided, and controlled by those with superior authority. ~ Carl Rogers.
Profound Carl Rogers Quotes
People only seriously consider change when they feel accepted for exactly who they are. ~ Carl Rogers.
When I look at the world I’m pessimistic, but when I look at people I am optimistic. ~ Carl Rogers.
I realize that if I were stable, prudent and static; I’d live in death. Therefore I accept confusion, uncertainty, fear and emotional ups and downs; because that’s the price I’m willing to pay for a fluid, perplexed and exciting life. ~ Carl Rogers.
You can’t possibly be afraid of death, really, you can only be afraid of life. ~ Carl Rogers.
I prize the privilege of being alone. ~ Carl Rogers.
Both the young and the old are almost completely useless in our modern society, and are made keenly aware of that uselessness. They have no place. They are private, isolated – and hopeless. ~ Carl Rogers.
In a person who is open to experience each stimulus is freely relayed through the nervous system, without being distorted by any process of defensiveness. ~ Carl Rogers.
I believe that the testing of the student’s achievements in order to see if he meets some criterion held by the teacher, is directly contrary to the implications of therapy for significant learning. ~ Carl Rogers.
Insightful Carl Rogers Quotes
Each person is an island unto himself, in a very real sense; and he can only build bridges to other islands if he is first of all willing to be himself and permitted to be himself. ~ Carl Rogers.
When a person realizes he has been deeply heard, his eyes moisten. I think in some real sense he is weeping for joy. It is as though he were saying, Thank God, somebody heard me. Someone knows what it’s like to be me. ~ Carl Rogers.
Life, at its best, is a fluid and changing process in which nothing is fixed. ~ Carl Rogers.
We in the West seem to have made a fetish out of complete individual self-sufficiency, of not needing help, of being completely private except in a very few selected relationships. ~ Carl Rogers.
It’s an awful risky thing to live. ~ Carl Rogers.
One of the most satisfying experiences I know is fully to appreciate an individual in the same way I appreciate a sunset. ~ Carl Rogers.
The state of empathy, or being empathic, is to perceive the internal frame of reference of another with accuracy and with the emotional components and meanings which pertain thereto as if one were the person. ~ Carl Rogers.
So these were the 75 top quotes about Carl Rogers.