Melody Beattie is a self-help author who specializes in codependent relationships.

Melody Beattie has become well-known in the area of self-help writing as a result of her honest and compassionate words.

You will find below a curated collection of the top ‘Melody Beattie’ quotes.


Best Melody Beattie Quotes

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You can clear the land, plow the field, spread the fertilizer, and plant the corn. But you cannot make it rain. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Make New Year’s goals. Dig within, and discover what you would like to have happen in your life this year. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Be patient. Relax and trust. Let go. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Be aware of what is, not what you would like to be, taking place. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Relationships are where we take our recovery on the road. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Codependents are dependent. ~ Melody Beattie.

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We take things to heart that we have no business taking to it. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Worrying, obsessing, and controlling are illusions. ~ Melody Beattie.

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We can trust ourselves to know when our boundaries are being violated. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Life is always moving, changing, shifting into its next shape. The movement is natural. It is how we evolve. ~ Melody Beattie.

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You give others permission to do the same: to love themselves. Revel in self love. Roll in it. Bask in it, as you would the sunshine. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Prayer and meditation help us affirm that our Higher Power cares for us. ~ Melody Beattie.

Other people may be there to help us, teach us, guide us along our path, but the lesson to be learned is always ours. ~ Melody Beattie.

Famous Melody Beattie Quotes

The new year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Taking time to rest, renew, and refresh yourself isn’t wasted time. Recharge. Choose what energizes you. ~ Melody Beattie.

Surround yourself with prayer. You never realize when you might need an extra miracle.. ~ Melody Beattie.

I will trust others to work out their own problems, including the ideas and feelings they want to communicate to each other. ~ Melody Beattie.

I will take responsibility for being aware of my pain and problems, and caring about myself. ~ Melody Beattie.

Detaching does not mean we don’t care. ~ Melody Beattie.

Once I realized it was okay for me to think about and identify what I wanted, remarkable things began to take place in my life. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Gratitude turns what we have into enough. ~ Melody Beattie.

I will focus on what’s happening now instead of what’s going to happen tomorrow. ~ Melody Beattie.

Gratitude helps us stop trying to control outcomes. It is the key that unlocks positive energy in our life. ~ Melody Beattie.

Even recovery brings losses, more changes we must struggle to accept. ~ Melody Beattie.

Today I will let go of my need for approval and my need to be liked. Instead, I will choose to like and approve of myself. ~ Melody Beattie.

God, help me accept myself, others, and my circumstances. Take me one step further, and help me feel grateful. ~ Melody Beattie.

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We are on a very rich emotional and physical journey on this planet. ~ Melody Beattie.

Nurtured, nourished people, who love themselves and care for themselves, are the delight of the Universe. ~ Melody Beattie.

The only person you can now or ever change is yourself. The only person that it is your business to control is yourself. ~ Melody Beattie.

Top Melody Beattie Quotes

Believing that things happen too slowly or too quickly is an illusion. Timing is perfect. ~ Melody Beattie.

Few things can make us feel crazier than expecting something from someone who has nothing to give. ~ Melody Beattie.

Today, I will relax, breathe, and go with the flow. ~ Melody Beattie.

We can trust ourselves to know when our boundaries are being violated. ~ Melody Beattie.

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If we want to change what happens, we change what we believe and expect. ~ Melody Beattie.

Goals give us direction. They put a powerful force into play on a universal, conscious, and subconscious level. Goals give our life direction. ~ Melody Beattie.

God, help me remember that when I admit and accept the truth, I’ll be given the power and guidance to change. ~ Melody Beattie.

Take responsibility for yourself each step of the way. Trust the new shape and form of your world. ~ Melody Beattie.

I trust so much in the power of the heart and the soul; I know that the answer to what we need to do next is in our own hearts. ~ Melody Beattie.

Many codependents are barely surviving. ~ Melody Beattie.

Popular Melody Beattie Quotes

I’m not helpless. Although help may come, I’m my own rescuer. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Let your mind and soul be at ease. ~ Melody Beattie.

The pain that comes from loving someone who’s in trouble can be profound. ~ Melody Beattie.

Guilt can prevent us from setting the boundaries that would be in our best interests, and in other people’s best interests. ~ Melody Beattie.

Beliefs create reality. ~ Melody Beattie.

Letting go helps us to live in a more peaceful state of mind and helps restore our balance. ~ Melody Beattie.

Self-love means loving and accepting yourself, your peculiar and unique way of seeing the world. ~ Melody Beattie.

Live your life from your heart. And your story will touch and heal people’s souls. ~ Melody Beattie.

We do not lead others into the Light by stepping into the darkness with them. ~ Melody Beattie.

Great Melody Beattie Quotes

There are almost as many definitions of co-dependency as there are experiences that represent it. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Don’t forfeit your self-esteem to another’s disapproval or rejection of who you are or what you have done. ~ Melody Beattie.

The formula is simple: In any given situation, detach and ask, “What do I need to do to take care of myself”? ~ Melody Beattie.

The greatest gift we can bring to any relationship wherever we go is being who we are. ~ Melody Beattie.

Caring works. Caretaking doesn’t. We can learn to walk the line between the two. ~ Melody Beattie.

Don’t reject yourself, and don’t give so much power to other people’s rejection of you. It isn’t necessary. ~ Melody Beattie.

Sometimes people behave in certain ways to provoke us to react in certain ways. ~ Melody Beattie.

Real power comes when we stop holding people responsible for our pain, and we take responsibility for all our feelings. ~ Melody Beattie.

Powerful Melody Beattie Quotes

We can cope by using our faith, other people, and our resources. ~ Melody Beattie.

A Codependent is reactionary. They overreact. They under-react. But rarely do they act. ~ Melody Beattie.

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The plan will happen in spite of us, not because of us. ~ Melody Beattie.

It’s our job to first make ourselves feel better and then make ourselves feel good. ~ Melody Beattie.

When we’re surrounded by things that look impossible, making a simple choice to do something that’s possible is a powerful thing to do. ~ Melody Beattie.

We let someone love us, we’re opening our hearts to god. ~ Melody Beattie.

The pain that comes from loving someone who’s in trouble can be profound. ~ Melody Beattie.

Resentments are hardened chunks of anger. They loosen up and dissolve with forgiveness and letting go. ~ Melody Beattie.

gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. ~ Melody Beattie.

I saw people who were hostile; they had felt so much hurt that hostility was their only defense against being crushed again. ~ Melody Beattie.

Codependent behaviors or habits are self-destructive. ~ Melody Beattie.

Wise Melody Beattie Quotes

Even if the most important person in your world rejects you, you are still real, and you are still okay. ~ Melody Beattie.

Feel what you feel, know what you know, and set your relatives free to do the same. ~ Melody Beattie.

Love yourself just as you are. ~ Melody Beattie.

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Today, I will wait if the way is not clear. I will trust that out of the chaos will come clarity. ~ Melody Beattie.

Letting go of our ideas about how life should go is a choice that sets life’s magic free. ~ Melody Beattie.

It’s so easy to look around and notice what’s wrong. It takes practice to see what’s right. ~ Melody Beattie.

Loving ourselves may seem foreign, even foolish at times. People may accuse us of being selfish. ~ Melody Beattie.

It’s hard to give up the self-esteem connected to being codependent and appearing ‘right,’ which is probably a survival behavior. ~ Melody Beattie.

Each moment in time we have it all, even when we think we don’t. ~ Melody Beattie.

You don’t blast a heart open, she said. You coax and nurture it open, like the sun does to a rose. ~ Melody Beattie.



So these were the 81 top Melody Beattie quotes and sayings on gratitude, letting go, codependency and boundaries.

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