84 Domestic Violence Quotes for Strength and Support

Domestic violence is a serious social issue that often includes one family member inflicting damage on another within the same the house.

This pattern of violent behavior can take many different forms, such as physical, psychological, sexual or emotional abuse.

The perpetrator’s primary goal is often to retain power and control over the victim resulting in a poisonous cycle of intimidation and injury.

Domestic abuse is not usually physical, as many people believe.


It cuts across all social, economic and cultural lines, making it a global issue.

Domestic violence may have serious consequences for a victim’s mental health, resulting in disorders such as depression, anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder.

It is important for society to acknowledge and address this problem as soon as possible by giving victims with assistance, resources and safe places in which to recover and restore their autonomy.

Domestic Violence Survivor Quotes

It is not the bruises on the body that hurt. It is the wounds of the heart and the scars on the mind. ~ Aisha Mirza.

Domestic violence is a breach of human rights as well as major public health and clinical problem. ~ Louise Howard.

You can recognize survivors of abuse by their courage. When silence is so very inviting, they step forward and share their truth so others know they aren’t alone. ~ Jeanne McElvaney.

Emotional abuse is any type of abuse that is not physical in nature. It can include everything from verbal abuse to the silent treatment, domination to subtle manipulation. ~ Beverly Engel.

The more that we choose not to talk about domestic violence, the more we shy away from the issue, the more we lose. ~ Russell Wilson.

Hairdressers know a lot about the personal lives of their clients. They come in contact on a day-to-day basis with women dealing with domestic violence. ~ Gordon Miller.


You are not the darkness you endured. You are the light that refused to surrender. ~ John Mark Green.

An abuser isn’t abusive 24/7. They usually demonstrate positive character traits most of the time. That’s what makes the abuse so confusing when it happens, and what makes leaving so much more difficult. ~ Miya Yamanouchi.


It’s violence from someone you know, someone who claims to love you. ~ Rachel Louise Snyder.

Few people who are hit once by someone they love respond in the way they might to a singular physical assault by a stranger. ~ Bell Hooks.

Your growth comes not as you work harder to get something you don’t have, but as you live in the reality of what you have already been given. ~ Nancy Guthrie.

Victims of domestic violence need assistance and deserve justice, I commend the crime unit’s efforts to put offenders behind bars and reach out to victims. ~ Bob Riley.

I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become. ~ Carl Jung.


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than to hurt yourself putting it back together. ~ Unknown.

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than to hurt yourself putting it back together. Women initiate most domestic violence. ~ Dov Charney.

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Sad Domestic Violence Inspirational Quotes

Nobody believes that domestic violence kills and nobody believes it is detrimental to children. This world has got to wake up. To me, if there is domestic violence, if the children see it or hear it, that to me is detrimental. Batterers should not have rights to children. ~ Denise Brown.

Domestic violence is any behavior involving physical, psychological, emotional, sexual or verbal abuse. It is any form of aggression intended to hurt, damage, or kill an intimate person. ~ Asa Don Brown.


At any given moment you have the power to say this is not how the story is going to end. ~ Christine Mason Miller.

Leaving an abusive partner is a very difficult thing to do. It frequently feels like you are failing, or destroying your family, or not trying to work things out, or not giving your partner a second chance. ~ Blaine Nelson.

It’s incredibly dangerous to leave an abuser, because the final step in the domestic violence pattern is kill her. ~ Leslie Morgan Steiner.

Sexual, racial, gender violence and other forms of discrimination and violence in a culture cannot be eliminated without changing culture. ~ Charlotte Bunch.


Grief does not demand pity; It requests acknowledgment. ~ Jude Gibbs.

Domestic violence causes far more pain than the visible marks of bruises and scars. It is devastating to be abused by someone that you love and think loves you in return. ~ Dianne Feinstein.

Domestic Violence Inspirational Quotes

Domestic violence is a pattern of emotional and or physical abuse perpetrated by a romantic partner, the term can also include abuse perpetrated by a family member against another family member. ~ Stacey Freudenberg.

Nearly one in four women will experience domestic violence during her lifetime. And slightly more than half of female victims of domestic violence live in households with children under age 12. ~ Lucille Roybal-Allard.

Overcoming abuse doesn’t just happen, It takes positive steps every day. Let today be the day you start to move forward. ~ Assunta Harris.


Don’t judge yourself by what others did to you. ~ Cody Kennedy.

We’re number one in domestic violence homicides. We also have a high rate of alcohol abuse and drug abuse and there’s a high lethality rate when you get those factors involved, so the shelter has 52 beds, certainly it is never empty. ~ Diana Burch.

Where is the political prisoner movement for those women who are imprisoned for retaliating against abusive father, unless, lovers, and others? I think the absence of these types of campaigns speaks volumes about our movement’s gender politics. ~ Kai Lumumba Barrow.

One day, I plan to love so loudly, my body abandons every demon harvesting me. ~ Arati Warrier.

It is fine to commiserate with a man about his bad experience with a previous partner, but the instant he uses her as an excuse to mistreat you, stop believing anything he tells you about that relationship and instead recognize it as a sign that he has problems with relating to women. ~ Lundy Bancroft.


There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds. ~ Unknown.

I realize now I am a survivor. I am a stronger woman for opening my eyes and stepping away from someone who didn’t respect themselves and would never respect me. ~ Lori.

Best Domestic Violence Quotes

From every wound, there is a scar, and every scar tells a story. A story that says, – I survived. ~ Fr. Craig Scott.

Domestic violence and abuse is threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between adults who are relatives, partners or ex-partners. It includes abuse from adult children and from parents of adult children. ~ Louise Howard.

After a while, I looked in the mirror and realized…wow, after all those hurts, scars, and bruises, after all of those trials, I really made it through. I did it. I survived that which was supposed to kill me. So I straightened my crown…and walked away like a boss. ~ Unknown.


Never let a man put his hands on you without your permission. ~ Melda Beaty.

And here you are living despite it all. ~ Rupi Kaur​.

Long term domestic violence: Being abused in this manner is like being kidnapped and tortured for ransom but you will never have enough to pay off the kidnapper. ~ Rebecca J. Burns.

Please don’t drown into his fears, his concrete fists don´t let him again, break the bridge of your nose with his cruel born hits. Then disappear into that mask of misery. ~ Anthony Liccione.

Profound Domestic Violence Inspirational Quotes

Domestic violence is not at all unusual. It is a serious and far-reaching social problem. ~ Michael P. Johnson.

There is now a wider recognition that domestic violence is about perpetrator’s power and control over women and involves not only physical and sexual violence but can include a number of behaviours such as intimidation and threats, isolation and humiliation, behaviour often named as psychological coercion or violence. ~ Lynne Harne.


Domestic abuse is wrong, but domestic retribution is okay. ~ Dov Davidoff.

Someone once asked me how I hold my head up so high after all I have been through. I said it’s because no matter what, I am a survivor, not a victim. ~ Patricia Buckley.

I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become. ~ Carl Jung.

Domestic violence has been shown to be associated with a range of mental health problems. ~ Louise Howard.

Top Domestic Violence Quotes

Strength doesn’t come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t. ~ ​Rikki Rogers.

Sometimes the shame is not the beatings, not the rape. The shaming is in being asked to stand judgment. ~ Meena Kandasamy.

If a child is confronted with murder, rape, domestic violence, and other kinds of destructive aggression in daily life, it doesn’t surprise me if that child ‘turns off’ careful looking and listening. ~ Fred Rogers.


Trauma may happen to you, but it can never define you. ~ Melinda Longtin.

The main reason they were homeless and in crisis was because of domestic violence. ~ Connie Phillips.

All violence consists in some people forcing others, under threat of suffering or death, to do what they do not want to do. ~ Leo Tolstoy.

Domestic violence can occur in any intimate or familial relationship, irrespective of whether the parties are living together or not, whether they are married or cohabiting or living in three-generational extended families. ~ Lynne Harne.


You survived the abuse. You’re gonna survive the recovery. ~ Olivia Benson.

From what I’ve been told, the scariest part of being part of a domestic abuse relationship is the idea that you cannot escape and you cannot get help, that feeling of being stuck. ~ Kerry Washington.

Abuse is the weakest expression of strength. It is weakness to destroy what you ought to protect, build, and make better. ~ Kingsley Opuwari Manuel.

There is a subconscious way of taking violence as a way of expression, as a normality, and it has a lot of effects in the youth in the way they absorb education and what they hope to get out of life. ~ Salma Hayek.

Serious Domestic Violence Inspirational Quotes

The time when domestic violence is the most lethal is when the person is trying to leave the situation. ~ Julie Johnston.


Domestic violence is the front line of the war against women. ~ Pearl Cleage.

It is most often hidden from even one’s closest confidantes, and on many occasions the physical violence is far less damaging than the emotional and verbal violence. ~ Rachel Louise Snyder.

No woman has to be a victim of physical abuse. Women have to feel like they are not alone. ~ Salma Hayek.

Domestic violence does not only happen to adults. Forty percent of girls age 14 to 17 report knowing someone their age who has been hit or beaten by a boyfriend, and approximately one in five female high school students reports being physically and or sexually abused by a dating partner. ~ Dianne Feinstein.

We cannot call the police for protection against domestic violence and then rally against them from brutality as if they are two different institutions. ~ Anannya Bhattacharjee.

Inspiring Domestic Violence Quotes

The very fact that intimate partner violence is so often addressed in civil court, rather than criminal court, gives insight into how we as a society still view it. ~ Rachel Louise Snyder.

She could just pack up and leave, but she does not visualize what’s beyond ahead. ~ Núria Añó.


A lot of people think that domestic violence is if someone hits, kicks, or punches you. ~ Robin McGraw.

At the beginning, I wasn’t aware of some of the stuff that goes on. Now, I have a heightened awareness of domestic violence and how to spot it. ~ Danielle Jones.

Domestic violence has often gone unnamed and unblamed in my society. It is the norm for men to teach their wives a lesson, and for the women to bear that beating and teaching with no complaints. ~ Fatima Mohammed.

If you want to know where to find your contribution to the world, look at your wounds. When you learn how to heal them, teach others. ~ Emily Maroutian.

A domestic violence advocate can help you discern your level of risk from your abuser and whether you should get a civil restraining order. ~ Caroline Abbott.

One in three women may suffer from abuse and violence in her lifetime. This is an appalling human rights violation, yet it remains one of the invisible and under-recognized pandemics of our time. ~ Nicole Kidman.


Use the darkness of your past to propel you to a brighter future. ~ Donata Joseph.

Even child abuse specialists do not routinely screen for domestic violence. This shows how much more education we need to do, even among experts, to understand the known links between violence of the child and the parent. ~ Jocelyn Brown.

Women initiate most domestic violence, yet out of a thousand cases of domestic violence, maybe one is involving a man. And this has made a victim of culture out of women. ~ Dov Charney.

I am living in hell from one day to the next. But there is nothing I can do to escape. I don’t know where I would go if I did. I feel utterly powerless, and that feeling is my prison. I entered of my own free will, I locked the door, and I threw away the key. ~ Haruki Murakami.

Domestic Violence Inspirational Sayings

If the numbers we see in domestic violence were applied to terrorism or gang violence, the entire country would be up in arms, and it would be the lead story on the news every night. ~ Mark Green.


Society has seldom considered the vicarious effects of domestic violence between partners on the lives of children. ~ Asa Don Brown.

No amount of me trying to explain myself was doing any good. I didn’t even know what was going on inside of me, so how could I have explained it to them? ~ Sierra D. Waters.

Domestic abuse is a form of communication fueled by personal insecurities, temperament, economic, educational or lack therein, physical and psychological conditions. ~ Asa Don Brown.

The boys had always been her reason to stay, but now for the first time they were her reason to leave. She’d allowed violence to become a normal part of their life. ~ Liane Moriarty.

You don’t have to wait for someone to treat you bad repeatedly. All it takes is once, and if they get away with it that once, if they know they can treat you like that, then it sets the pattern for the future. ~ Jane Green.

So these were the 84 quotes about Domestic violence.

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